A scattered soul will actually keep us from giving ourselves fully to our mate. Having a divided soul has primarily two deep-rooted negative effects in relationships. 1st it hinders our ability to receive. In other words, the affection that is being given to us does not appear to reach our heart. Second, the capacity in which you can give is limited. Even though we give all our heart, we have only a portion to give. You can only give what’s yours to give. A divided soul does not affect your giving, but it does affect HOW MUCH you have to give.