http://bit.ly/fcy2Ev Why is your life the way it is? In this first step it is all about questions. The questions you have to ask yourself first are: Why is my life the way it is? Is there a reason, that I do not see a chance to change it? Maybe your answer is one of the following: I have to consider special circumstances, that other people do not know. I don’t have a choice, because I have to pay my bills and take care of my duties. I have to wait until something happens. Then I will have more time ore more possibilities. I don’t believe, I can really change anything, because “the others” won’t let me change it. What do you believe? If you believe to feel bad, it is likely to happen! You may not believe that you can change your life, your job, your relationship in three weeks to live happily ever after. But most people have no problem with the idea, that they can can ruin their life completely in three weeks. Do you believe, your day can get much more worse without any problem? Do you feel tired and exhausted, even in the morning? Do you think, that it depends on other people how your day will go on? Do you feel, like one day is like the other? Do you expect your life to go on and on the same way for years?